Oral Sex.. Is it really safe??

For a few days ago, my DB ask me about something that really make me thinking.. He ask me about oral sex. 

 

"Honey, is it really safe if we doing oral sex??" and I said "I don't know, honey. Why you ask me about that?"

He gave me some statement and he said "Because my friend had been told me that is not safe and I read from the Internet, its not safe and make us have STD." and I said " What is STD honey?" He told me "STD is Sexually Transmitted Diseases. Don't you know about this?" Suddenly I am speechless.

Now, I wanna know about that and wanna share evan a little bit discuss about this. As I am just a human, so maybe there is some mistake or not complete that I share, I wanna say SO SORRY.. :)

First, 

Oral sex is defined as the act of sexual intimacy from mouth to penis (fellatio), mouth to vagina (cunnilingus) or mouth to anus. And you can remember this that you can't get pregnant from oral sex, but you can get an STD (Sexually Transmitted Diseases) .  

STD are caused by viruses or bacteria that like warm, soft, moist places such as your mouth and genital area (penis, vulva, vagina, anus, area between penis and anus, and area between vulva and anus). STD can spread from the genital area to the mouth and from the mouth to the genital area. They are generally passed between people via body fluids or direct contact with skin or sores.

The question is What sexually transmitted diseases can be transferred from genitals to mouth, and vice verse? 

This is  the answer that i can give you :

1. HIV

2. Herpes

3. HP

4. Gonorrhea

5. Syphilis

6. Chlamydia

7. Hepatitis B

Second, This is I can give you some advise for your safety oral sex : 

Oral Sex on the Vulva (outside of vagina) and Anus

If you are giving oral sex from mouth to vulva (outside of vagina) or from mouth to anus, you can protect yourself with methods such as the following:

• Plastic Wrap (such as Saran or Cling Wrap)
  Pros
  • Inexpensive and easy to find in any grocery or drug store)
  • Covers a larger area
  • Can be used with oil- or water-based lubricants
  • Allows heat to be felt through the wrap
  Cons
  • Can rip -- use caution with fingernails
  Directions:
  • Cover the vulva area with the plastic wrap. You can either cut a piece of the wrap and hold it in place or wrap the pelvic area.
  • To increase sensitivity, you can place lubricant on the side facing the vulva.
  • Once you are done, throw the plastic wrap away.
  • If you are rimming, follow the directions above but place the wrap over the anal area.

• Dental Dams, Licks and Other Latex Square Barriers
  Pros
  • Provides a stronger latex barrier
  • Some, such as "Glide Dams," come in flavors such as grape and vanilla
  Cons
  • May not be easy to find, although some teen-friendly clinics (such as Planned Parenthood) and dental supply stores carry them
  • Some feel there is less sensation of warmth and feeling
  • Covers a small area and fluids may seep past the dam (use caution)
  • Only protects what it covers
  • Some require that you hold the latex in place for protection
  • May not be used with oil-based lubricants because they will break down the latex
  Directions
  • Hold the latex square over the vulva area. Some will stay in place (like Glide Dams), while others must be held in place for protection. You can also try using a garter belt to hold it and free up your hands.
  • To increase sensitivity, you can place lubricant on the side facing the vulva. Be sure to only use water-based lubricant (not Vaseline or oils).
  • Dental dams can only be used once, so after you are done, throw away the dam.
  • If you are rimming, follow the directions above but place the dam over the anal area.

• Cutting a Condom into a Rectangle
  Pros
  • Easy to get. Look for a non-lubricated condom, flavored lubricated condom or flavored non-lubricated condom
  Cons
  • Provides a small area of protection and requires care to ensure that fluids don't seep past the condom into the mouth or the anus/vulva area
  • You must use both hands to hold the cut condom in place
  • Can only use water-based lubricant (not Vaseline or oils)
  • Only protects what it covers
  Directions:
  • Unroll the condom and cut off the very tip and the very end of the condom.
  • Cut lengthwise to make a rectangle.
  • Hold the latex square over the vulva area. To increase sensitivity, you can place lubricant on the side facing the vulva. Be sure to only use water-based lubricant (not Vaseline or oils).
  • Once you are done, throw away the condom. If you are rimming, follow the directions above but place the condom over the anal area.

Oral Sex on a Penis

Barrier methods for giving oral sex on the penis (fellatio) include:

• Non-Lubricated Condom
  Pros
  • Easy to find in drugstores
  Cons
  • Some say it's dry or don't like the taste
  • Only protects what it covers
  Directions
  • If available, place some water-based lubricant (not Vaseline or oils) in the tip of the condom.
  • Put the condom on the penis (see step-by-step instructions).
  • After you are done, throw away the condom.
  
  
• Flavored Lubricated Condoms
  Pros
  • Sometimes can be found in drug stores
  
  
  • Some teen-friendly clinics carry different varieties
  Cons
  • Some say that the lubrication feels/tastes more like Chaps tick
  • Only protects what it covers
  Directions:
  • If available, place some water-based lubricant (not Vaseline or oils) in the tip of the condom.
  • Put the condom on the penis (see step-by-step instructions).
  • After you are done, throw away the condom.
  
  
• Kiss of Mint Condoms
  Pros
  • Many find mint a more favorable flavor
  • Condom is not lubricated
  Cons
  • Hard to find. Generally, only adult stores open to people over 18 carry this product. You may want to try teen-friendly clinics as well
  • Only protects what it covers
  Directions
  • If available, place some water-based lubricant (not Vaseline or oils) in the tip of the condom.
  • Put the condom on the penis.
  • After you are done, throw away the condom.

Third,

• True: You can't get pregnant from having oral sex.


• False: You can't get sexually transmitted diseases (STD) from having oral sex.

In summary, unprotected oral sex puts you at risk for numerous sexually transmitted diseases. If you perform unprotected oral sex on your sexual partners, you should mention it to your physician. She may want to check your throat when she is screening you for other STD.